So, you want to be a submissive~BDSM "family"~ Position training chart~various punishments

So.. you want to be a submissive because the idea of??????? appeals to you? arouses you? is a fantasy you hope to make reality? you are naturally submissive... doesn't matter why to me, I asked so you would have a question that requires you to think hard and look within yourself.. cause chances are fairly high that when a Dom is vetting you... that will be one of many questions.

Okay first there are different types of submissive, neither one is any better than the other, there is submissive, that is your label/title .. wear it proudly.. for clear understanding think of the differences are the degrees of submission, the 3 basics are Bottom ( submission light)..Submissive (submission medium) .. and Slave (submission maximum )
that is your basic foundation, off them you can add to each or take aspects of 1 and apply to the other according to your needs and what works best for you and your Dom, mix and match or create your own version, but regardless it will be built off the basic 3..

what's the difference between a bottom and a sub     << has resources & links to take you deeper down the rabbit hole...

What works for you and your Dom is called your Dynamics, you will catch hell from the purists.. you will hear shit like a slave is only this, does whatever their master wants regardless... and that is complete bullshit... that is their Dynamics and most likely it IS slavery in the traditional sense, for them they are traditional any other way is absolutely wrong in their eyes and they will tell crap like you are not a true slave you are just a sub...

a very well written essay on the difference between sub and slave

They are 100% correct you are not a slave according to tradition.. you are not the same type of slave as them... but that does NOT make them better than you, or you inferior.. you hold your head high and proud, don't ever let anyone kink shame you.. you are a slave just in your own dynamics, still a slave though .. just let them spout off, there is nothing you can say or do to make them change their stance.. what you can do is make them look like the elitists or cliquey club they are. and that is to simply ignore them, let them yip and yap until they are blue in the face, they will shut up eventually...you DO what you and your own Master do, you obey him/her no one else, if you are unsure how to conduct yourself properly discreetly ask your Dom,

Here is a simple rule to remember and this is for every single type of Submissive.. for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction...Basicly stop think, before you say or do something unbecoming of you, no matter how angry you are at those kink shaming, conduct yourself properly and accordingly  ( you will know how cuz you will have been trained) everything you say and do, good or bad is a Direct reflection on your Dom.. you will always want to protect his/her reputation and good name, so get self control and do your duties, tune out the yippy cliques and elitists ... if you are a little ( I am) you will hear really bad things , like you can't be a little and a submissive at the same time... bullshit, there are littles who are slaves ...
this is a very worthwhile watch, she is speaking from her heart and soul about BDSM what it is and how it has helped her it worth the 10 minutes
Milkwebs- BDSM Taught Me This

everyone in the BDSM world is like a global family, we share a common theme we are kinky and have lots of diverse fetishes, there is NO right or wrong way to be any sort of Submissive, just a different way,, thats it.. Diversity, acceptance, being all inclusive, any gender any sexuality, any skin color we are all one family.. the community is supposed to be friendly and welcoming from just curiosity to beginner to experienced..doesn't matter you are welcome to come join the family ... some of those elitists, forget that, and they forget they were once nervous and unsure of themselves, as well as new/novice themselves and they forget all the help the old guard and others gave them,
 and just so you know.. I too was once guilty of Elitism, 20+ years ago I am not and never was the perfect submissive, I am pretty sure perfection doesn't exist..but we strive for it anyway

So here is a chart, that you will need to memorize, its proper positions, your Dom will most likely train you at some point.. and No this is not for Slaves only.. its for Submissives of all types ...

Disclaimer: Before you carry out any of these punishments, make sure you’re not breaking any laws where you live... This is solely for informational purposes by mature, responsible adults, and I am not responsible or liable for any trouble you get yourself into with this information. Remember that each person’s pain/humiliation tolerance is unique, so use your best judgement. Always play safe, sane, and consensual!

To show that punishment doesn't mean beating the hell out of you subs ass, there are punishments far harsher that an ass whupping. I am NOT going to list the crimes cuz that varies from Dom to Dom, Dynamic to Dynamic, so I am just gonna do a short list of punishment that can be used....

#1- Have them take a shower in any way they like to, but when they are finished make them rinse their entire body in cold water for 2 minutes.

#2- Remove their right to use furniture. They must kneel on the floor next to you, sleep on the floor at night, etc.

#3- When they want to eat, make them cum in their own food before they can eat their meal.

#4- Sub must kneel on uncooked rice for 3 minutes with their hands placed behind their head. Then they must clean up the rice.

#5- Record their masturbation/sex noises and set it as their ringtone.

#6- While making sure impressionable or non-consenting people do not see, take them into your garden, blindfold them and tie them to a bench, leaving them there until you decide to retrieve them. Make sure the weather is cooperative and will not burn or cause them any physical damage.

#7- Forced naked exercise, such as yoga, pilates, jumping jacks, etc.

#8- Pick up twenty thumbtacks using only their breasts or ass, then spread rubbing alcohol on their breasts or ass.

#9- They must use their tongue as a towel upon your body after you have finished taking a shower. In this way, they will worship your body.

#10- Tie them to a bed and use a Hitachi Magic Wand on them, for forced orgasms. If they get too loud, gag them.

So I am gonna leave a great BDSM song lyric video below, and this is all I have for tonight. 

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Leslianne xoxo

BOTDF- Safeword (lyric video)